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Staying Human in a Helping Profession, Part 1: Burnout.
Burnout in Clinicians: Why the Most Caring Professionals Are the Most at Risk By Emily Hanlon Burnout Isn’t a Personal Failure, It’s a Predictable Occupational Hazard If you’re a clinician reading this and quietly thinking, “Surely I should be coping better than this…” let’s pause right there. Burnout is not a sign that you’re doing this work wrong. It's often a sign that you’re doing it t oo well, for too long, in a system that quietly expects you to be everything to everyo

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2 days ago5 min read


Ungrateful" or Just Overwhelmed? Rethinking Gift Reactions at Christmas
By Emily Hanlon Christmas morning. Wrapping paper flies, giggles echo through the house, and then... " This gift SUCKS!" your child blurts out. Ouch. Right in front of the in-laws, too. Cue the awkward silence. But what if I told you that this wasn’t rudeness or ingratitude? What if it was disappointment ? The build-up to holidays like Christmas is intense. From advent calendars and Santa wish lists to sparkly decorations and presents under the tree... the hype is real . As

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Dec 15, 20253 min read


Why Christmas Is Emotionally Hard for So Many Kids (Especially ND Ones)
By Emily Hanlon We all love the idea of Christmas... the joy, the magic, the candy cane-scented memories. But behind the scenes? It’s a lot . Especially for neurodivergent children. The Disruption of Routine During the holidays, structure often disappears: Bedtimes are inconsistent. Meals are unpredictable (and sugar-laden). Activities vary day to day. Social expectations increase. For many kids, this can be exciting. But for others, especially our ADHD, autistic, anxious ki

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Dec 9, 20252 min read


What Are Sensory Supports? Why They’re Not Rewards, but Essential Tools for Regulation
By Emily Hanlon “Sensory supports are not rewards.” This isn’t just a professional opinion; it’s a non-negotiable stance I hold as a child psychologist. It’s a hill I will die on. Every week, I walk into schools where fidgets, wobble cushions, movement breaks, noise-cancelling headphones, and calm-down corners are treated like gold stars...only to be handed out if a child “behaves.” And every week, I see the fallout of that mindset. Let’s get one thing straight: Sensory tool

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Nov 19, 20255 min read


5 Burnout-Busting Boundaries Every Clinician Needs to Set
By Emily Hanlon Intro: Burnout Doesn’t Slam Into You, It Creeps In Quietly Burnout isn’t a sudden collapse; it’s a slow leak, usually caused by blurred boundaries and constant overextension. Burnout doesn’t announce itself. It’s not a dramatic collapse or a one-off breakdown. It’s slow. Sneaky. It builds as your boundaries dissolve, day by day. As clinicians, we’re trained to hold space for others—but if we don’t hold space for ourselves , no one else will. Let’s explore how

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Nov 5, 20253 min read


15 Everyday Phrases to Help Raise Kind, Emotionally Aware Humans (Big and Small)
By Emily Hanlon The way we speak to our kids becomes their inner voice. It teaches them how to set boundaries, how to relate to others, and how to treat themselves. The good news? You don’t need a degree in psychology to raise emotionally intelligent humans; you just need a few intentional , everyday phrases that reinforce kindness, consent, respect, and safety. Here are 15 simple sentences we use in our home (with our little humans and grown-up ones too) to help create conn

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Oct 21, 20253 min read


5 Things I’m Doing Differently to My Parents & Why It Matters for My Kids
By Emily Hanlon Parenting today comes with an incredible privilege, and a responsibility. We’re the generation with more : more...

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Oct 7, 20253 min read


The Jet Lag Diaries: A Real Parent’s Guide to Travelling with Kids (Without Losing Your Mind)
By Emily Hanlon Let’s be honest. Travelling with kids is not the type of holiday you used to take. It’s a high-stakes, snack-fuelled...

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Aug 29, 202513 min read


Attachment and Daycare: Can Children Still Thrive in Childcare Settings?
By Emily Hanlon Wondering if daycare harms your child’s attachment? A clinical psychologist (and mum of 3) breaks down the research,...

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Aug 19, 20254 min read


Childcare, Trust, and Safety: 5 Steps Parents Can Take After the Victorian Abuse Case
By Emily Hanlon Last month, I packed my baby’s bottles into her bag, labelled my toddler’s new hat, and reminded my oldest son (for the...

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Aug 12, 20253 min read


Demystifying Your Child’s NDIS Plan: What All the Jargon Really Means
By Emily Hanlon When you receive your child’s first NDIS plan, one of two things usually happens: You skim it, trying to spot any...

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Jul 17, 20257 min read


5 Costly Mistakes Parents Make When Navigating the NDIS, And How to Avoid Them
By Emily Hanlon Navigating the NDIS for your child/family member can feel like stepping into a world full of potential, but one that’s...

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Jul 10, 20255 min read


So, You Want to Become a Psychologist in Australia? Here’s the Path (And the Real Talk About How Hard It Is)
By Emily Hanlon The Psychology Pathway Is a Labyrinth (But You’ve Got This) If you’ve made it this far into a psychology degree,...

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Jun 4, 20257 min read


The Hidden Signs of ADHD in Women Most People Miss, And Why Diagnosis Often Comes Late
By Emily Hanlon ADHD is often associated with hyperactivity, impulsiveness, and visible distraction. But for many women, it looks nothing...

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May 13, 20253 min read


Why I Don’t Use a One-Size-Fits-All Approach for ADHD in Girls, And What I Do Instead
By Emily Hanlon When working with ADHD, especially in girls, there is no “universal checklist” that neatly fits every individual. Yet, so...

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May 12, 20253 min read


What ADHD in Females Really Looks Like: Understanding the Missed Signs and How to Get Support
By Emily Hanlon When most people think of ADHD, they picture a hyperactive young boy bouncing around a classroom. But what if ADHD looked...

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May 6, 20253 min read


5 Myths About Starting Therapy for Kids That Are Making Parents Nervous
By Emily Hanlon If thinking about therapy for your child makes you break into a cold sweat, welcome! You’re officially a normal, caring...

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Apr 24, 20254 min read


Why I Don’t Use Traditional Recommendation Templates Anymore, And What I Do Instead
By Emily Hanlon When I was first learning to write reports as a clinician, I relied heavily on the templates I was given...ones focused...

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Apr 14, 20252 min read


What Are Tailored Recommendations? A Complete Guide for Clinicians
By Emily Hanlon In today’s clinical landscape, especially for early-career allied health professionals, there’s a growing push (and...

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Apr 3, 20253 min read


Separation Anxiety vs. Difficulty Separating: Understanding the Difference
By Emily Hanlon If you've ever witnessed a child struggling at drop-off, clinging to you with teary eyes, you may have asked yourself: Is...

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Mar 10, 20253 min read
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